Dating a nigerian man
There are a lot of stereotypes on the internet about dating Nigerian men, but like the English proverb: , all men can’t be bad or all good .
In this article, I will be take you through a guide towards dating or marrying a decent Nigerian man or isn’t a descent Nigerian man what you’re looking for or prefer to have?
cheers sweetiefemi 2000: if you are dating a Nigerian man you must expect many things, in the culture of the Nigerians they always love to dominate their partner which means you should e somebody that is very patient, they always want to show that they are the Husband which means you have to be humble another thing you should expect is that they are easily carried away with love which means you need to hold unto him tightly so that he will not be snatched away from you/ Nigerian men love to be cared even tho this was for her, thanks because im feeling the same way she is feeling, and this was helpful...at the same time, they need to know that if your picking up an american women, they should know as well that here ( u.s.a.), everything is 50/50, you take care of me i take care of you.....because any other form shows that he is self centered, and only cares about himself.
OKAY yall i have been going wih this man for about 2 months and we were almost perfect from the start until thing start crashing down i although when we started dating i had no idea he was nigerian untill a week after us being together i never really cared to much because he seemed to be a great guy i also new that thing that he does was going to be different from thing i wasnt use to but i was willing to see pass that because i was really falling for this man he did everything i asked of him and vise versa he always wanted to be dominate and controlling almost possessive but i took it as he loved me which he did i tried to be very patient but he had a very bad temper which but a dent in our relationship i am 19 years old and he is 21 which he felt was a problem at first but we got passed it i started to really love him but his actions wouldnt let me he is very controlling insecure and sometime mindless he felt his word was always over mine because i was young and a american i actually dont put nigerians down because some of them are great just have to have patients to deal with themcooking & cleaning?
I too am in a relationship with a Nigerian Man, I love him dearly.
I am all about looking after him, love to cook for him, love to please him, I respect him as head of the household, I sometimes have an issue with him telling me how to better take care of my own needs(rest, eating more, just plain pampering myself) he can be firm about that but I am learning, have always done the looking after so now it feels a little odd when someone wants to look after me.
I perfectly understood we got different backgrounds but she wanted me to act Canadian when am not. It's well [quote author=suzzy16 post=35050645]good,dnt let any woman control how u live ur life for u[/quote]Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (0) (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2017 Oluwaseun Osewa.
re you a foreigner in love with a Nigerian man or may be dating a Nigerian man?
be respectful and trust me you'l always love a Nigerian man.
Sometimes I think common sense should tell a man how to act towards his woman, but then I remember we have different views, I just basically would like to know why he can't/ or won't diverge away from his traditions for just a while (relationship wise), because I consider myself to be feminist, yet I've sacrificed some of that pride and cooked a few meals, cleaned up a bit, and done so without griping or complaining, wonder if he'd do the same, You will definitely expect different things like behaviours and understanding of opinions.
You knew this before you agreed to date each other so i think the best to be ready to face all the joy of relationships and other side of it.cooking & cleaning?
We barely dated couple of weeks and she asked me to get her pregnant so she could help me with papers.
I told her I wasn't interested cos am not in a haste.How is a decent Nigerian different from other men around the world?