Dating a transman
Trans men’s erections, on the other hand, are too small for typical condoms; cutting the thumb off a latex or nitrile glove can serve as a good alternative. Acknowledge and correct your own mistakes If you’re with your trans partner for long enough, sooner or later, you’re probably going to mess up.
For the most part, dating a transgender person is no different from dating a cisgender person (someone who identifies with the gender assigned to them at birth).
It’s important to ask your partner, though, whether there are any situations in which you shouldn’t correct misgendering.
If your partner hasn’t come out at work, for example, or if their family relations are so fraught they’d rather just let the misgendering slide, you should follow your partner’s lead on how to proceed. Don’t ask about surgery or sex organs unless things are clearly going in a sexy direction Your partner’s body parts are none of your business unless you are going to touch them (with their permission). Unless your partner tells you first that you are allowed to ask questions about their body, do not ask.
But if you are a cis person dating a trans person, there are some things you should keep in mind that may not have come up in your previous relationships with other cis people.
I am a polyamorous queer cisgender woman, and nearly half of all the lovers I’ve had have been transgender.If it’s awkward for me, I imagine how much worse it is for my partner to have to correct people about themself.