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Plan on seeing her no more than once a week and usually only at night/the following morning. But you need to be damn clear that things ARE NOT exclusive and they ARE NOT moving towards exclusivity.
Tell her you like that things are casual between the two of you and that you are happy there is no boyfriend/girlfriend expectation. A lot of girls think that after a period of time in an open relationship, you’ll come around. A girl can be crazy about you, but if her friends make her feel like shit for seeing you, you’re done.
She’s taking her cues from you and you need to communicate with your whole essence that seeing other people is totally cool. For most girls, you’ll need to keep your antennae up and allow the “What are we? The long and short of it is this: Jealousy is just selfishness and low self-image.
You can place all the cultural software you want on top of it. Now I don’t tell you this so that you immediately break up with your girlfriend and live in accordance with “natural order.” Nor do I tell you so that you can calmly explain it to your girlfriend and begin to comfortably date openly. I tell you this so you can say, “SCREW what I’ve been told is the natural order. I’m going to do what feels right to me.”Whether you prefer monogamy or non-traditional relationships doesn’t matter much to me. Do you want 3 girls you are seeing who love you as much as an exclusive girlfriend would, and the freedom to meet new girls as well? I decided that if you offered me the most perfect girl in the world on one hand, and the most perfect girl in the world plus the freedom to meet other great girls on the other, I’d take the other. If you want to know who I have been with I will tell you things that don’t violate their privacy.Know that you are awesome, independent of anyone she might like more.