Exclusive dating advice
I understand why people I talk to look at me cross-eyed when I say that it’s not wrong for the person their dating to continue to be active online. While it may not seem kind, dating multiple people is one of the key benefits of online dating in my mind.You might have an amazing date only to see the person is “Online Now” when you get home. Because of that, my opinion is that until you agree to enter an exclusive relationship with one another, you should BOTH be looking to meet other people.Want to have the talk in person instead of an email? And remember: the goal at this point isn’t to win some kind of fight where at the end you’re in a committed relationship.The Know When it’s Time to Move On Some people will take this approach and will find it works great: they’re in an exclusive relationship now and his/her profile came down off the dating site.I appreciated not being told what to do, even though autonomy isn't my most major personality trait.If he had said I had to let the others go, I would have felt prematurely controlled.
I get contacted by a lot of women who contact me they’ve verbally attacked the person they were dating over the issue of activity online.
I’ve talked about getting to exclusive already in my article on His Profile is Still Active: Is He Interested or Not?